In an effort to explain to others why I missed the birth of our son James by 28 hours, I am turning to this blog as a means of explaining it. In this post, I'll focus on the facts and events while trying to keep many of my feelings and emotions separate. After much deliberation and keeping this as a saved draft, I've decided to publish this post.
I arrived in Riyadh on the morning of 19 May 2011 on a one-way ticket. (For more on the decision to move to Riyadh, see:
The New Job, The Next Move, & The Winds of Change) The plan from the beginning was to stay in Riyadh up until the birth of our son unless I would need to leave the country to advance my residency visa application process. On 25 June, I'd been in the country for 37 days and was getting my cultural legs under me. I was bemoaning the lack of progress in my residency visa process to one of my local colleagues and teammates. I showed him my passport and he looked at my business visa affixed on one of the pages. He told me that something was wrong with my visa. Though my visa was a 5-year multiple entry visa, it said -- in Arabic only -- that each visit on the visa must be less than 30 days. As Scooby-Doo says, "Ruh-roh!". I immediately reported this to our company support staff. The initial reaction was, "No problem. This happens all the time. We'll get it fixed." so I wasn't too fussed. Uh -- big mistake.